orgasm vs ejaculation

[dribfunk]

Can someone please answer if it's possible for a guy to manage to achieve orgasm without ejaculating.

[boobesque]

yes, my boyfriend has 3 or 4 orgasms during sex before he ejaculates.

[dribfunk]

Superb - we've just started having sex without condoms and despite enjoying it, she feels like I hadn't orgasmed.

Therefore when I said I'd *** she flew into a semi-rage thinking I'd ejaculated (rather than using the withdraw method) and couldn't comprehend that I hadn't.

Bless her

[sod_the_m25]

Probably not where you're coming from, but the 3rd or 4th of a session can sometimes be hardly more than a dribble.

[kaktus]

I believe that the whole point of tantra sex is to orgasm without ejaculation. So yes it is possible.

Erhm can I just just be boring here for a second...  If she isn't using any sort of contraception and you guys are not interested in being pregnant, then it isn't exactly a safe method you're using... I am of course assuming here that you are using the withdraw method , if not just ignore me :0)

[dribfunk]

We've done this whole withdraw thing (as I'm new to it I'm not really sure what to do once I've pulled out - at my age, you'd think I'd know!) and even though it sounds a strange set-up, she's on the pill.

I think its an intimacy thing with her. Sort of like the final barrier.

Or something.

[Pythia]

She's on the pill, yet wants you to withdraw at the grand finale???! Strange ...

[dribfunk]

Yeah, but I didn't dare post a question about how the female mind works...

[kaktus]

Okidokey dribfunk, just wanted to make sure... I must admit it seems quite strange like Pythia says.  If I should hazard a guess it would be, like you say yourself, that it might be some intimacy border or maybe she doesn't like the feel of it afterwards. Can't you ask her why she feels like that?

[dribfunk]

I could ask her, but as it's a new relationship I am still being polite and respectful.

This is something which we disagree with - according to her I should just tell her if she says/does something wrong; in the same way that she tells me.

Again, I could've raised a thread to this whole debate...

[ondemania]

hmm. guess shes just being extra careful even though shes on the pill! maybe she wants to know you even better just IN CASe something unfortunate should happen.

[kaktus]

If she has said you can ask or comment on things you don't like or find curious then do it. just remember to not accuse her of anything and don't be negative. If you would like to ask her, I would recommend something like: "I don't mind at all, but can I ask out of curiosity why we have to do it like that?" or something similiar.

Regarding a new thread - just make one if you want to :0)

[dribfunk]

I believe its possible that even using the withdrawal method semenal fluid can still escape which would mean that I could infect her (either STD or pregnancy).

Maybe reverting back to the raincoat is the way forward - although the sensation that we both get just isn't the same. 

Are there any thinner condoms out there? 

[dribfunk]

In terms of the asking/commenting issue, it's more a thing like she'll destroy my beliefs and values (after which she apologises incase she's hurt my feelings) and I feel that I'll keep my opinions to myself, so as not to hurt her.

She made me laugh last night though.  She cooked dinner with a little worcester sauce and told me that I should have mentioned it whilst she was cooking.  I didn't as I felt it was inappropriate.  This took place after telling her to stop adding pepper to the mash (which she blatantly ignored!!).

[Buddy]

I dont think so unless they are pixxed and cant go on any longerr so they fake as good as a girl (especially if it has been a marathon)

We girls often just turn a blind eye - erm often two blind eyes cos we are knackered -LOL