Betrayal

[Answerprancer]

Have you ever properly betrayed someone beyond your own belief ?
I mean totally let someone down in the most hideous way imaginable.
Obviously the reason I ask is because I have and there isn't a single day that goes by when I don't bitterly regret it.
Time has passed and there is little or nothing I can do to make it right.
I am so SO sorry Pasang.

[Sqad]

answerprancer:

<<<there is little or nothing I can do to make it right<<<

That is the bottom line, so get on with life and only worry about things that "you can do something about"

[Answerprancer]

Thankyou. You are both right and I'm embarrassed about posting this, I hope it disappears into obscurity (after this).

[ummmm]

It's still here...


AP....thinking about it daily and regretting it means that you're a decent person.

[Sqad]

ummmm, my love

.<<<.thinking about it daily and regretting it means that you're a decent person.<<<

Not so, in my opinion, with that philosophy as long as one regretted some indiscretion and then acknowledged guilt that would then make them a "decent person"

Wait a minute........that is the basis of the confession in Catholicism.......no, I have got that wrong somehow?

[ummmm]

Better than having no feelings Sqad..

[Sqad]

ummmm...we are not talking about "no feelings" we are talking about when to give up the feelings of guilt and to move on.

Feelings can be destructive as well as "normal"

[ummmm]

I know...but some people do bad things and feel no guilt.

[ummmm]

You have mail btw...

[Sqad]

ummmm...OK