I'm all for the saving money at Christmas but do find it hard not to spend on my kids, I only buy for them and my nephew, but I miss the tradition of seeing my two open their gifts. They're 18 and 13 now and I have told the oldest that he won't be getting all the silly bits I normally buy and it's not just about the money, it's the stress of trying to find new and unusual things to give!
Over the years they've had every sort of trendy light [fibre-optics etc] bathe submarines, mini helicopters....you get the picture they are all good on the day but are soon forgotten and left in a cupboard!
Talking of which, anyone want an inflatable rugby game!!!!
Lisa x