What do I do after son comes in stoned

[angry2008]

What do I do? My son has just returned from his mothers and for the second time is stoned, his older brother who lives there is always stoned and she smokes it too. I have a constant battle where it takes me nagging and literally screaming at him to get it out of him that he's either smoked it or been round them when they have smoked it. Should I phone the police? or is there anyway of testing to see if he has actually physically smoked cannabis.

[netibiza]

Having been through this with my child (and worse) I tried everything, drug tests (not much good cos we knew she was off her head) punishments, sympathy , and several good talking to, but finally it is up to them themselves (and whoever they mix with). My daughter finally gave it up after a couple of years thank goodness, but it is hell on earth for the parent. Good luck!

[netibiza]

oh and another thing, I dragged her to the doctor in desperation, hoping for advice and help, he said, it's the times, we had drink and rock n roll, they've got drugs! I was disgusted and changed our doctor immediately but even so she cleaned up her act herself.