i love him but its to far

[sexybecky]

i met this boy on hoilday i i really do love him i have been talkin to him on the phone but he lives to far away from me and is goin into the army should i wait 4 him or should i move on and it is true love plz help

[andy hughes]

You have to know that the first heady rush of 'love' - especially on holiday, doesn't last. If it's real, it settles down into something more real, and if not, it evaporates, leaving some nice memories.

Only time will tell if this is the 'real thing', so keep your options open - make sure you mix with lots of friends of both sexes, and don;t make this relationship the centre of your universe, or you will sit at home moping and pining, and it's not good for you. Time will show you if this partnership is meant to last - by all means give it a fair chance, but be realistic as well.

[cliffsdoll]

i presume the boy is local, if so i'm afraid it was a holiday romance and he,ll be looking for the next one already,i know you really feel love for this boy, and it' s heart wrentching not being able to see him, but believe me when i advice you to get on with your life back home.  theres no harm in writing to him as a friend but look closer to home for a boyfriend, and get support and comfort from your girl friends to get over the hurt.

[AliFlump]

Dont lose hope Sexybecky, he wont necessarily be looking for the next one. I met my boyfriend in magaluf  3 years ago he lived in West Brom i lived in Leeds. we saw each other as much as we could and we both knew we wanted it to last now we have a house together and couldnt be happier. if you love him keep in touch with him and see him as much as poss if he feels the same way he will keep in touch. Time will tell if it will last but dont give up just because he's not next door. Im glad i didnt

let us know x

[simoneee]

Don't waste your time, life is far to short to hang about for some bloke! Your only here once enjoy life while u can... Your a long time dead!!!!!! 

[bigwazo]

real love hardly ever exists in this day and age. most people like to being in love and most "love" people have for each other is a lustful love.

[AliFlump]

What is wrong with you all?!. Of course real love exists. If you think he could be the one becky keep in touch with him, you could lose out on something.

[Slinkye]

Why not just go with the flow and enjoy the moments you have now. Leave it open and maybe not comit yourselves to anything at this point in time and see what happens. I agree with andy huges be realistic about the situation. Go out and live life and get yourself distracted. If its meant to be it will be.