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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.It certainly doesn't happen to me. Loosehead basically has the answer, and I think you're giving up too quickly by only trying once. I know lots of people who have mobiles and don't bother to answer them when they're doing something more important. Women also often put their phones in the bottom of their bags and then don't hear them ringing, so they miss hundreds of calls and just giggle and don't really seem to care when they find out.
I used to give women my number to look less threatening than asking for theirs, I've turned to stone waiting for the first call...
Was this women in a club or pub? In which case, she could have been drunk. You know what that's like- the beer goggles make you more forward, and make the person you are flirting with far more attractive than in the cold light of day. She could have been just carried away in the moment, and the morning after realised that she didn't actually want to make a move after all. Last time I got drunk me and my friend planned a road trip to Scotland. Like that will ever happen in reality!!
Or the woman could have given you a made up number. When you call, the person who owns that phone is thinking 'whose number is this?' and doesn't answer. Actually, that might happen anyway. I never answer if the number is unknown. Try leaving a message/texting. And yeah, call more than once but LEAVE A MESSAGE.
Re-reading your message i reckon they want you to call but don';t know who you are. text instead.
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Thanks for the answers. It really does seem there is no logic to this. The women I met were not drunk and, even if they were, how could they possibly know what I look like the next day when their sober and I am not there for them to look at?
I know about that Scott Mills phone line thing - it's a bit harsh. Mind you, the people who leave those messages, seem shameless enough so I am sure they can hadle it. Thankfully, I have never been given a false number - yet!
Cheers
If you want something from a woman, be it sex, a date, or whatever, I would strongly advise against ever using the phone to get it. I worked in the double-glazing trade for two years and whilst I hated the job (although it paid well) I learnt a staggering amount about human behaviour. For example, door-canvassing yields far more good "leads" than tele-canvassing. Why? Because it is a lot more difficult to slam a door on someone than it is to hang up the phone on them. Think about it, when the police want to speak with someone in connection with an incident, do they call them and politely ask if they'd like to attend the station at a time to suit them? No, of course not. They go round their in person. In pairs. Think about that.
There's a saying used in marketing "never call someone unless you have something to say".
Think about that also.
Not giving your number out to someone is not rude. But giving your number to somebody you do not like is just bewildering.
So tell me this: if women give out their number to men they don't like - just to please them or get rid of them - what do they do when they meet a man they do like? Have sex with them immiediately?
One positive thing does drop out of all this: there'll never be a population problem in this country as long as we have these bizzarre dating protocols.
Dear Paidinfull
i KNOW why this is happening to you! If a female is interested in you and she gives you her number and then fails to answer the phone then she is probably doing The Rules, which basically means playing hard to get by giving you the impression she is BUSY. If you're thinking she is busy then you might be wondering where she is, what she is doing, and with whom!
If you want to understand the above (as many women follow the rules but all will vehemently deny that they follow the rules!) then may I suggest that you get hold of a copy of the following book:
The Rules
By Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider
And you must read Chapter IV, Rule 5��..Don't call him and Rarely Return His Calls
I hope this has been of some help
Carol : )
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