GIRLS i need your help

[theleeroy55]

my mate has the body of superman, he's tall and has the hest and arms that girls like,

i am a bit shorter and dont have extra muscle, we are both goodlooking as we have been told but i pul a considerable more times than him.

my reason is that i have the correct sense of humour and dont try and impress girls by acting cool, i just be myself. could you please settle the argument by telling us what is more attractive and WHY ?

[mimerv]

Turn Gay........... it's your only chance !!!

[boobesque]

its not about looks, i pull more than my best mate, she is slim, blonde and tanned, and i am brunette, not slim and pale, yet i always attract more male attention, i have been told plenty of times its down to my personality, so looks only the first attraction, particulalry to drunk people!

My boyfriend was tall and very slim when we met, but he had something about him that i liked and we have lived together over a year.

Everyones tastes are different, i wouldnt fancy your mate, and i know plenty of girls that dont go for the stereotypical muscle man!

[twiglet4frog]

think its the same as with men tho, want an example?

Sam from Big Brother this year!

She was drop dead sexy as far as me or my friends thought but by the end of day 3 we were bored with the Zero personality and no apprent way of communicating!

[bracknell]

The Body of Superman - hmmm  everyone has different things about a man that attracts them for some it is the Footballer/popstar looks others it is rugby players.  For me, if a man dresses nicely, smells nice and shows manners and not tries to impress with chat up lines that are so see through  its unreal.  Dont start telling me about how my eyeslook like starts when my glasses are clear and not rose tinted!!  Be yourself ask me if I am having a good time or if it's crap - that way you might stand a chance!

[I_Tried]

I am tall slightly fat(not obese) and wear glasses any girl wants me, oh I have a personality too :-)

[BUNNY]

I can only speak for myself but a man who is overly toned and pumped up would really turn me off.Its probably a bit like a women who totally cakes herself in too much makeup.It indicates someone who feels the need to try too hard to impress rather than someone who is relaxed and secure about themselves.It takes alot time and effort to achieve that look I admit but it would make me assume that the person is rather selfobsessed.I'm not saying that your friend is any of these things,I'm just saying its the impression I'd get from a guy with a superman body.But if he is relaxed and confident he should be able to carry off any look.

[muses_queen]

I think this boils down to age. When your under 25 you may go for the body at first but will soon get bored if there is no personality. When you get over 25 you realise that you need someone who can make you laugh and keep life interesting. We all go for the better looking one at first but our priorities change and you go for personality first and foremost.