Are you best friends?

[milly143]

Is your partner your best friend or do you consider it a seperate thing?

[4getmenot]

me and my bloke have never had a major argument because we both do what we want. Ive always been far too independant. Id say partners can be soul mates but dont agree with best mates. Doesnt sound close at all, its like saying 'we're more like best mates than husband and wife' when you've got no romance. Thats just my opinion dont anybody take it personally

[LoftyLottie]

In a way a bit of mystery helps with the romance side for me too 4get. I quite like the fact with have separate lives as well as our life together.

Although we certainly have huge arguments and disagreements!!

[starone]

I remember years ago one of my husband's friends saying to us "My best friend is a woman" (not his wife). Guess what?

[Mick-Talbot]

his transvestite alter ego star?

[starone]

Good guess Mick. No - I thought it was so obvious I didn't need to tell you. Next thing we knew he had left his wife and gone off with his best friend.

[China Doll]

He's my closest friend I think... But the relationships I have withmy three longstanding girlfriends is very different, we grew up together and have known each other for years, our intimacy is based through a different set of circumstances, plus I don't fancy them... My best friends are my sisters, so that is absolutely a seperate thing to any friendship I have, I don't know anyone better than I know them and vice versa.

[4getmenot]

I would never do with my best friend what I've just done with my bloke lol

[ummmm]

I would say he is my best mate....as he was one of my best mates before we got together :-)

[welshlibranr]

Yes, he certainly is!.........always has been, and always will be!...........I have many friends, some really good friends!.........but he is my best!..............

[thebarron]

Girlfriend best mate, lover and bodyguard.

[Mick-Talbot]

i'm not sure we are even friends today.

[andy-hughes]

I am probably my wife's best friend, but she is not mine.

That post is owned by my first girlfriend, when i was seventeen and she was sixteen. We are able to pick up where we left off even if we don't see each other for ages.

She is the keeper of my secrets - everyone should have one of those.

[sara3]

Hughes - I'm watching you!

[Bbbananas]

No he's not. And I don't think I'd want him to be really.

I have 2 BestFriends - one, Lil, of 48 years' standing. She knows 99.9% of everything there is to know about me. And Tara-ra-bum-ti-eh, of 12 years' standing, who also knows 99.9%.
My partner knows all he needs to know - about 65%.

[starone]

Yes, very dangerous.

[joggerjayne]

Best friends with a guy?

Crikey, are you nuts ??????

[woofgang]

He's my best friend. I don't tell him everything...can't imagine telling anyone everything; but as I have sad before, he is the only person whose company i prefer to solitude.

[andy-hughes]

Happy to be under your gaze sara3 ... always ...