its a sad xmas

[slinky.kate]

i cant bring myself to get christmassy,the tree is not up,refused invitations for xmas dinner,i just miss rex so much,i did'nt think it would be this bad but i feel as if he is still in the house but i cant see him,son and i was sorting photos and found a lot of rex and we both started blubbing(he's 23) i suppose time is supposed to be a great healer.

[welshlibranr]

So sad for you kate, lost my little mate a year ago last week, very hard to deal with, last Christmas wasn't happy at all here!...........I feel better now mostly, though last week was hard to cope with, but yes, it does get easier, I can now smile and remember the wonderful fun he gave us!..............takes time!..........try to keep your chin up, take care.................