I went to a funeral the other day and when I was getting into the car I was asked to carry a reef to the parlour, now my brother in law was asmatic and didn't like flowers, the family asked that no one send flowers but obviously this gent didn't know his wishes, so I get out the car with the reef and everyone outside the parlour turns round and stares at me with that look in their eye, I knew they were thinking, "Why did Sandra bring flowers? She for one should of known there wasn't to be any flowers!!" I was so embarrassed lol, as I knew they weren't mine.....