Don't you just hate being jealous....!?

[nat_84]

I'm so jealous it frustrates me!

You know that feeling when you know it's pathetic but you can't help it. And u get that horrible stressed feeling in your chest...?

Anyway - Scenario: Basically, i'll cut a long story short (as poss). A conversation we were having in bed last night turned to this girl that my boyfriend has mentioned on more than one occassion (that he works with) - not in detail but enough to notice. So i was like "Do u fancy her?" and he said he "did, used to.." and then went on to tell me that he "doesnt know any bloke in the office that hasn't liked her...", so i was like great.....

Then i couldnt sleep all night!! Coz of that stupid stressed/jealous feeling!!!

(the conversation got to her because my boyfriend wanted to use my debit card to buy Liverpool FC tickets at work and said if they need to speak to the card holder (me) could this other chick pretend to be me.)

By the way i'm not jealous to the extent that i get peed off if he buys mens mags (FHM type), or says whether he fanices celebs etc - just the thought of him trying it on with another woman and when he mentions his ex - thats when i get jealous!

yes... i know its pathetic but i can't help it - anyone else similar??

[nat_84]

lol Ruby - hilairious! Poor thing - probably went home for a cry! Bet he had his eye on u for ages!

We all have to admit that looks play a massive part - as it usually instigates our original view/preception of them. I also go for the dark looks/features. my boyfriends mixed race and i would definitely say he's my type to look at.

In the long run however, looks become less valuable and the personality is what u look for. A bloke that can make me laugh wins my heart all the time, i also like charming guys.

[Rubyrose]

Our office has about 50 people! 30 in here and 20 across the hall. We are on the 6th floor and on the second floor is a tennis court we can use! We get all kind of job perks and we get fresh fruit laid out every day! Its so nice. We are so well looked after. I don't mind that there is so many of us. There is about 15 women and all the rest are guys! Its great! Plus... I am at the front of the office and get to know everyone so well. I have only been here two months!

Liquidspace - Thats awful! My ex was pretty much the same... once every week or two I'd get a few kisses and that was my signal to get undressed! No wonder I had the Ann Summers catalogue delivered every month!

[Rubyrose]

I agree with that 100%

The good looking guys in the office are nice eye candy and I find myself straightening up when they walk past but some of them seem like tw@ts! Lol. But then there are a few who have me in hysterics but ain't that good looking... they are the ones I email and chat to most! Oh yes... I am emailing about 6-7 different guys in the office! Great fun! Only been here 2 months... I love it.
One of the ladies said to me the other day 'Are you in season'? Haha. Coz I kept saying who was fit!

[Spcl22]

RubyRose....you are simply ace! Your comments are so true and funny to read.... I keep reading, nodding and thinking 'yep, yep, yep'.... you should have your own talk show! hahahaha.

[Rubyrose]

You're not the first person to say that to me this week actually Spcl22! Strange! I would LOVE to have my own talk show.... does anyone know anyone who can arrange this? Lol

[nat_84]

lol - you'll certainly give Trisha a run for her money....!

[liquidspace]

Next question on here:
"How do I set up my own talk show?" Ha ha

Ruby - where the heck do you work!? Tennis court and fruit every day - I want some of that.

Mind you I consider myself lucky that I can email guys too when Im at work lol - what sites do you chat on Ruby?

[Rubyrose]

I know! Its the best job ever!

I am loving it! I went on lunch just now and I stuck a post-it on my screen saying 'On lunch'... when I came back someone has stuck one on top of it saying 'So what, am I bovered? Do I look Bovered?' Hahahaha! I am cracking up... I am going to find the culprit... I think I know who it was! Lol

This is the only site I chat on really... I used to use it 24/7 but now I log in now and then at work as my social life is far to hectic to be using the net all the time! Lol. I used to use Cerescape too but its cr@p now. The only good thing on it is the personal messages!

[liquidspace]

Cerescape? havent heard of that one. Might take a peek.

[x sparkle x]

have to say i totally know how you feel hun. i posted on here sometime last week about a similar thing. my boyfriend's work colleague needed a shoulder to cry on and chose him. i didn' t mind this but it was the fact she was texting him all day until the early hours and he deleted half the messages so i wouldn't get upset (made me paranoid instead! lol). and i know she was texting him saying 'i looked a state today babes' to me that's fishing for compliments! i think i'd feel better if i met her though it'd put my mind at rest. i'm glad i'm not the only one who gets jealous (and i'm not a jealous type). hope you feel better soon about it hunni xx

[nat_84]

hey sparkle.

Thanks for the sweet message.

Gosh - now if that was my fella he'd know i'd be fuming!!! Like u said if u meet her it may settle some initial thoughts...

x

[Rubyrose]

Thats what happened with my ex and the girl he left me for! She wasn't happy in her relationship and he wasn't happy in ours (apparently - Never saw any signs of it though!!!) And they were spending the day together at work telling eachother their problems and confiding in eachother and it pushed them closer together!

[dyslexicme]

Oh i am the same ...but How can they be so insensitive?