I will give you a serious answer! It was when my MIL died of cancer, almost 4 yrs ago now. It was absolutely horrendous seeing her in that state but I just had to carry on supporting her and my hubby. It was only when it was all over that I cracked up.
snap tigs mr zzxxee's biological mother (hes adopted) died of lung cancer around 4 and a half years ago veery hard.
Thanks for sharing your story im sure you were a tower of strength to all around you x.