Just to confirm - yes, Ratter is a really, really lovely man!!! We watched the full Program on Kara Tointon this morning and it was so interesting and emotional! She is such a lovely girl and it is incredible to see how much work she has had to put into learning her lines for Eastenders and the other parts she has taken on. A very courageous young lady. I think one of the saddest things is that not only the dyslexia sufferer often sees themselves as being "thick" or "stupid" , sometimes other people do to. But they are in fact neither of these things!!! Their skills just lie in other areas and their brains equate things differently to most. Some of the most entrepreneurial and extremely successful people are dyslexic , i.e. Richard Branson! I think that for Ratter, finding that there is a reason why he has struggled to do specific things throughout his life and now identifying the cause, is in fact a relief. Over the years, he has unconsciously developed strategies he uses to overcome or work through some of his problems. In many ways I think that this struggle has made him the man I so adore, someone I totally respect and love with all my heart. He is intelligent, honest, kind, considerate, so laid back but also strong in heart and mind! And he is patient ... well, he would have to be to be with me, lol! I love you Ratter ... yours sincerely, your secretary, lol! :o)