Oh know, i've been invited to two royal wedding parties, which do I go to? Unfortunately neither are the actually ceremony etc in london (i'm still waiting for the invite :P)
Plus both the people who've invited me are friends and didn't realsie each other were holding a aprty. I think in both cases it's more like the parents are throwing the party but have said that the kids can bring x amount of friends.
person 1) I've been friends with since we were 9 and I probably know him better than person 2. Plus I know his family more and get along with them all. Plus it seems that everyone has ditched this person and is going to person 2s party.
Person 2) I've known since we were about 10 but didn't have much to do with them until a couple of years ago but have got to know him quite well recently and we were working on 'oliver' together both backstage and TBH prefer his company to person 1. Plus this person has invited a few other people I know but one I had a bad time with a few years ago, but they've been at other parties I've been at and have grown up and were civil towards me.