I milled over it for a couple of hours and told those two guys (on facebook chat) that i didn't drink the 'holy water' that he tried to get me to drink as part of the ceremony.
Molly - reading all your thread - I think you are an easy target, my lovely - these boys are obviously wind up merchants and you play right into their hands.
In a way I hope you're right, but i don't think 2 of them are shallow enough to do it, plus I sent a message to other people they mentioned and they've done this to them aswell and they were just confused.