Anyone up?

[milly143]

?

[moonraker558]

I iz ere.

[Jan1957]

Yes milly. You ok?

[milly143]

Not really ok. Broke up with my boyfriend and I don't want to go to sleep.

[Jan1957]

Sorry milly. Have you been going out with him long?

[Arksided]

Well I was going to say that everybody seems to have crashed down for the night, but seems i'm wrong as usual.

[milly143]

quite long for me, 3 years.

Sorry Arksided, I'm still lerking.

[Jan1957]

That is a long time milly. Sorry love, I expect you are really upset, even if it was your choice. It's never easy.

[milly143]

It wasn't my choice, never would have been. Sorry, just feeling down. Don't mean to take everyone with me.

[Jan1957]

It's ok, I'm already there too milly. Husband and I both having health problems and it seems as soon as one of us is feeling better the other one is struggling again. It's just nice to be able to come on here and have someone to talk to. It makes a change to have someone to talk to at this time of night/morning.

[milly143]

It does. I don't really have many people I can talk to in reality and sometimes coming here and letting rips helps.

Also sometimes you see things in perspective and what seems like a problem to me is just a drop in the ocean to others, like yourself who has proper problems of their own. I hope you and your husband and both back to good health soon. x

[Jan1957]

Thank you milly. I know what you mean about coming on here and letting rip cos I think if I did it to my friends all the time they wouldn't be around for long. Mind you saying that, some of them aren't. I have been quite down about the lack of friends that have been in touch since I had my ankle operation in April and a couple have only contacted me since my hubby has been ill. Shows how much they think of me. Never mind, at least I know who my real friends are now.

[milly143]

Of course, they always say you find out who your realy friends are in hard times but I'm sure you find like I do, there is always an ear to bend on here. I've been at my sisters most of the night but I had to let the poor woman get some sleep at some point.

[Jan1957]

At least you have some family near. Just take a couple of days to think things over and decide what it is you really want and don't do anything rash. I know what it's like when your upset to rush into something. I'm going to go and try and get some sleep now as I've got a hospital appointment tomorrow. Look after yourself lovey and speak soon. xx

[milly143]

Me too. I can't stay up all night. No good for me. I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow. x

[dotty.]

I'm here, gawd knows why I've worked all day sunday but can't sleep, milly make a list, the good and the bad, see which wins,