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My cousin, who lives in Spain, is due to get married later this year. They invited me and my partner however, due to unforeseen circumstances we cannot attend. We do intend to send a wedding present to them.
When I told my told my aunt that I could not attend they were disappointed and wanted to know reasons why we can't come.
The thing that is bothering me is, is that my cousin's fiance has now taken me off this friends list on Facebook. I feel that this is really childish behaviour and have felt like emailing him to ask why, but I do not want to cause problems in the family, so I was going to leave it be.
Today, I have found out he has friend requested my partner.
Shall I email him and air my views fairly, or shall I not say anything to keep the peace? After all, I don't want to fall out with anyone.
When I told my told my aunt that I could not attend they were disappointed and wanted to know reasons why we can't come.
The thing that is bothering me is, is that my cousin's fiance has now taken me off this friends list on Facebook. I feel that this is really childish behaviour and have felt like emailing him to ask why, but I do not want to cause problems in the family, so I was going to leave it be.
Today, I have found out he has friend requested my partner.
Shall I email him and air my views fairly, or shall I not say anything to keep the peace? After all, I don't want to fall out with anyone.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.removing someone from your friends is a snub really...it is childish but its some peoples way of making a point when they are peeved at you
bear in mind if he has added your fiance, could it be a technical hitch ? check again in afew days...because ive thoguht that about people and discovered i am there but for some reason couldnt be seen ...strange but it happens
bear in mind if he has added your fiance, could it be a technical hitch ? check again in afew days...because ive thoguht that about people and discovered i am there but for some reason couldnt be seen ...strange but it happens
oh dear Joko. I am sorry if you feel my comments are irrelevant. I was giving another perspective. There is a life outside facebook, and I think it is sad that people give so much weight to it. There have even been murders due to someone giving their status as "no longer in a relationship"! Also people have had their homes broken in to because they have advertised the fact they are going on holiday. There is also a certain lack of security of the whole site which has led to people leaving it. Surely a list on a website should not the criteria as to whether or not someone is your friend or not? Even you in your post describe actions on facebook as "childish". Muchlovex will no doubt welcome all comments.