How to get through a break up...

[CAJ1]

I am looking for your wisdom here lovely ABers! Split up with my OH on Sunday, moved out on Monday into a new place which is unfurnished. No furniture and not much money and I feel so crap at mo, any advice on getting back to normal. I think I have hit the chocolate/ice cream eating stage...

[boxtops]

^ oops, yes you said you are... much learn to read.

Sorry CAJ - hijacking your thread. I feel for you. Been there, it's rubbish for a bit, but you come out later feeling very much stronger, and you can be your own person. I camped with deckchairs and a blow-up mattress at first, charity shops are great places for building your new place. Come on here - we'll help ♥

[4getmenot]

so caj is down and you're telling her you're basking in heat on island in malta. Lol. Even making me depressed.

[yogi-bear]

Lol 4 get. She could always join me x. Hey boxy still here for about 10 days then Ibiza Majorca and the canaries back to Ibiza and then home for a big Kip x

[yogi-bear]

And so could you 4 get. I'll even go skinny dipping with you x

[karenmac60]

Caj, it'll take a bit of getting used to, but learn to enjoy your own company and get to know yourself. I went from living with my parents to living with my bf then getting married - when we split up I realised I didn't know my own tastes and opinions because he had dominated so much of my life. I got to really enjoy living alone (ish - I had a small child and many pets, but you know what I mean). You'll get there and you'll be a stronger and better person for it. Good luck xx