I've been with my wife since mid 2006, we got married in September 2008 and I am so in love with her. I never dreamt I could be so happy with someone as I am with her. But we were at a friend's party a couple of weeks ago and my ex girlfriend was there. When I was in the kitchen my ex came in and stood a bit too close for comfort, I told her to back off but short of actually physically pushing her there was no way she was going to move, she started kissing me and my wife walked in and saw her, I pushed my ex away straight away but to my wife if looked as if I'd pushed her away because she'd walked in. My wife hasn't spoken to me since and I'm staying at my mum's house. How can I prove to her that I didn't cheat on her?
Try to avoid going to parties where ex girlfriends are going to be at! Don't bring your wife to parties that ex gf's are at. Find out who's going to parties before you go to them in advance if possible. As soon as an ex gf trys kiss you don't just stand there lapping it up! Shout get off me and push past her and go into the other room. I'm sure if It was a bloke trying to kiss you you wouldn't of got caught enjoying it by your wife!