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Thank you Barmaid. Yes there were only ever 2 children, and SIL died 2004. Therefore only beneficaries would be my husband and her only grandson. We are not talking big sums of money here, just the value of a very run down house probably worth around £170k.
I have sent a letter of enquiry to see if a copy was lodged with the Custody Clerk Record Keeper's Dept, just in case; I realise they won't send the Will, if they have it, but hope they will inform who executors are. I will do as you suggest and send out letters to other solicitors in immediate area and the bank, but the prices of ads in Gazette are too high on our income.
I always thought there was a Will because I recall her saying some years ago she had to sort something out when her husband died in 1986. I can't see that she would have spoken about these things if she hadn't made one. Whether it turns up or not the beneficiaries would still be the same, the only difference would be who administors the estate as far as I understand. I am just wary of my husband applying for letters of administration until all avenues have been exhausted because I don't want him to be accused of doing the work of an executor if there is one, especially if its a law firm... we can do without the hassle. There must be some sort of precedent in cases like this?