How to get things normal again?

[kittykay143]

My Best Guy Friend and I were hanging out at my house and we were doing homework, I layed down on the couch and he came over to me and layed on top of me! and he started humping me as I was laying there! I didn't know what to do because I just thought he was joking around. Once he started to take off my shirt, I knew he wasnt. So I kinda pushed him off... he stopped humping but he just layed there staring at me. He looked dissapointed. Now it's really awkward between us. How can I get things back to normal again?

[boxtops]

Talk to him, ask him what came over him when he did this thing. How old are you both?

[Sqad]

Humping?........try this next time you see him.

"Guy, no like this humping, told you before, so why you no risen to me?"

That should help.

[Lonnie]

You can't. he obviously fancies you, probably always has, and always will, so you have two choices, take it to the level he wants, or stop seeing him.

Anyway, what he did was tantamount to a rape.

[RATTER15]

\\Anyway, what he did was tantamount to a rape.//

I hardly think so lol :)

[joggerjayne]

He sounds like one of those annoying little dogs.

[erin-x]

Lol Jayne... I was just going to ask if he was a dog :-)

[joggerjayne]

"Once he started to take off my shirt ..."


You shouldn't have let him wear it in the first place!

[RATTER15]

Troll?

[Lonnie]

RATTER15, She was laying on the couch, without an invitation he went over, lay on top of her, and had sexual intercourse with her. What would you call it?.

Unless of course 'Humping' doesn't mean having sex.

[joggerjayne]

Well, RATTER, doesn't a troll have to be abusive, or inflammatory?

Maybe this is just someone having some harmless fun.

Or maybe it's a genuine question.

But not really a troll.

[ummmm]

Humping fully clothed....as in doing the actions of the act.

[joggerjayne]

Lonnie ...

It's not totally clear, but I think our understanding is that the guy didn't take her clothes off. He was doing some sort of "humping" action.

Maybe kitty will clarify ??

[Old_Geezer]

Since kittykay143's shirt wasn't yet off clearly the description indicates it was actions only.

Back to normal, well time is a great healer. But yes adults talk things out. At an appropriate level of course. If you are sure you aren't interested say so, say you'd like to be friends still though. Put it all behind you. Be clear as he is likely to be disappointed as I suspect he sounds the sort too embarrassed to make feelings clear and though a jokey pretend hump might break the ice and which he could laugh off if not. Try not to give any suggestion that if he tried harder you might change your mind; since he needs to be sure he has to get over what he feels for you.

[redcrx]

"I didn't know what to do because I just thought he was joking around. Once he started to take off my shirt, I knew he wasnt."

if intercourse had taken place, Lonnie, them Im sure kitty would be aware that he was not joking around prior to the shirt being removed.

[pa___ul3]

If you can handle having a male friend that clearly fancies you then call him a dirty perv and tell him if he tries anything like that again you'll cut his pips off.. in a jokey way though, just take the pizz out of him. Recommend that in future he uses a more subtle approach to women.

[Sqad]

\\\\ Now it's really awkward between us.\\\

Explain in greater detail please.

His approach is not an uncommon way among the male fraternity, in making a pass. It failed...some you win, some you lose.

[mungbeanz]

Jogger Jayne. Trolling is a art. Not just offensive.