i had my depo the other day and the nurse told me if i wanted another child (!) it would take 18 months for full fertility to return. bit of an odd comment for me as my son is 18 now and i'd never expressed any desire to stop contraception. i think it's good that you have some of the signs of your normal cycle (i.e. sore boobs, some bleeding and cramps), but maybe it will take a little while for the obvious regular signs to come back. that said...you may well be in a position to get pregnant, so for now - keep practising and have fun! if you are relaxed and less stressed about things (easier said than done, i know!) that will also make the process easier. pamper yourself, eat a healthy diet, take folic acid (and anything else recommended to optimise pre-pregnancy health) and i'm sure you will get there. good luck, sweetie x