falling in love

[numnut1]

is it possible that after two weeks you believe you have found the one?? i am 40 yrs old have two lovely girls and was not looking for love. a guy at work started to express an interest in me didnt take much notice then gave him my number!! at first the texts were just friendly then invited me out for coffee which i said yes to. we met up went for coffee had nice time thought what a really lovely man x he has bombarded me with me texts have met up a few times and im totally smitten, i cant believe that i can feel this way after two weeks, he has asked me to marry him i said yes x please has anyone been here like me and its worked i truly hope so or am i acting daft like a 16yr old???? help!!!!

[Canary42]

Yes, you're acting daft like a 16 year old.

[karenmac60]

I don't want to rain on your parade here, but it has been known for men with certain 'tastes' to target single mothers in order to have access to children. I would be very wary here. Introduce him gradually and as Rowan says, watch your daughters' reactions with him and heed any concerns they have.

[China Doll]

It's a horrible but entirely accurate point Karen makes.

[joeluke]

No one gets to know someone well enough in just 2 weeks to want to marry them

Wake up and smell the coffee

[ummmm]

It's happened for some Joe, might be pot luck, but it's happened.

[David H]

Especially if you've been around a bit to tell what's right more quickly then you can spot it in minutes, it's a combination of being familiar with what you like and finding it. People aren't that complex we need months to work them out, if they aren't hiding any nasty secrets or qualities then if we know what the tests are (as in the earlier thread) and they pass that's pretty much it.