to much info....chlamydia

[leanne_1987]

Found out the bloke i was with was sleeping with 3 other women behind my back...one being his childrens mum (we now speak, neither us knew about each other) we had unprotected sex once, after i found out about the other women i went to get myself tested, got my results and it says i have got an std, the other women also went for a test but hers have came back clear... how could this of happened if he was sleeping with all these others too, he couldnt of caught it off me in the first place as i hadnt slept with anyone 3 years prior to this and was clear back then so must have got it from him... i've done the right thing and told him about it but he is saying i'm lying to try cause trouble and will not get tested, therefore hes still going around infecting other people!!

[bednobs]

perhaps he used condoms with them?

[Mosaic]

The likelihood is that an infected person will infect every sexual partner but it isn't inevitable - like running across the road without looking doesn't mean you definitely will get run over.
But he's a creep. I don't think you can 'do' anyhting other than keep away from him.

[leanne_1987]

nope he didnt use condoms with his ex gf either, i am definately keeping away from him, no doubt about that, does any one know if you take a test too soon it wont show up as a positive test? is there an incubation period at all? anyway shes going to go get tested again...i've never felt so dirty in my whole life

[snags]

''the other women also went for a test but hers have came back clear...''

From the web: Does Chlamydia always show on test?
Yes chlamydia will show on test but not 100%; very few times it could be a false negative on the test. Sometimes they will take 2 types of tests; urine & a sample of the discharge.

[leanne_1987]

thanks all, anyone know what kind of medication will i have to take, she said on the phone i will need 4 tablets i have to go in tomorrow to get them, i'm going to feel so embarassed and stupid

[bednobs]

it'll be antibiotics

[IggyB]

are you sure you were clear back then - it doesn't always have symptoms and isn't picked up 100%, maybe you infected him? Hard to know for sure i guess.

[Sagz]

He probably had it from another person besides those 3 women that you mentioned. He's not coming clean with you so get rid of him.

[WELSHYORKIE]

lol at Sagz unintended pun. Leanne, the people at the docs/clinic will be used to dealing with this type of std and will not judge you and you need not feel 'dirty'. It would seem that chlamydia is more common than people think. I would stay well clear of this joker.

[leanne_1987]

i'm well and truely rid of him, his problem if he doesnt believe me, gave the clinic his number see if they can get him to go in for treatment

[DrRuru]

It is possible that the other test result was false: this can happen. It is outrageous that he is refusing to get tested as it is so simple these days - you can even arrange it online. There is a website where you can get tested for Chlamydia and gonorrhoea by post - <a href="http://www.thesticlinic.com">Chlamydia Test</a> - the results are quick too - just 24 hours.

[DrRuru]

It is possible that the other test result was false: this can happen. It is outrageous that he is refusing to get tested as it is so simple these days - you can even arrange it online. There is a website where you can get tested for Chlamydia and gonorrhoea by post - http://www.thesticlinic.com - the results are quick too - just 24 hours.