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How do i stop
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Thinking too much!!!!
Over analyzing..... X
Over analyzing..... X
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.You have to find something to think about that you enjoy or at the very least don't mind thinking about. When the unwanted thoughts come, make yourself think about something else....soap opera family trees are usually quite good...complicated enough to make you stop thinking about anything else but totally non-threatening.
(I am assuming that you are thinking about things that you do not particularly want to think about or problems you are having difficulty solving.)
(I am assuming that you are thinking about things that you do not particularly want to think about or problems you are having difficulty solving.)
make a list of the things that are on your mind.... cross through the ones you can do nothing about
then next to each of the others put one thing you can do towards solving the problem and just do a bit when you can
If its 'he said she said' stuff... ask yourself do I need to apologise for anything if so get it out of the way and then you can close that too..
Will just help you feel that things are a bit more controlled You are going through a busy spell at the moment though once you are in a proper job with a bit more of a routine it may get better too
then next to each of the others put one thing you can do towards solving the problem and just do a bit when you can
If its 'he said she said' stuff... ask yourself do I need to apologise for anything if so get it out of the way and then you can close that too..
Will just help you feel that things are a bit more controlled You are going through a busy spell at the moment though once you are in a proper job with a bit more of a routine it may get better too
I definitely care less as I have gotten older. And I say what I think which I never used to do. I have become very hardened now to people I don't like and I tell them what I think of them cos I just don't care any more. If I have things on my mind, and I can't sleep, I breath in deeply thru my nose thinking only nice things, and then blow out through my mouth imagining I am blowing out all the bad stuff (or imagine the nasty people I am thinking about being blown away in a hurricane). It seems to work and calm me down, and I get off to sleep better. Maybe its just in my mind, but it works for me.
Look up 'mindfulness' tinks....(link below)
http://www.get.gg/mindfulness.htm
go down to 'Mindful breathing' and practise that ... its good anytime but especially if you can't get to sleep at night! You can also do it anywhere. Try for 5 mins at a time and build it up when you can.
http://www.get.gg/mindfulness.htm
go down to 'Mindful breathing' and practise that ... its good anytime but especially if you can't get to sleep at night! You can also do it anywhere. Try for 5 mins at a time and build it up when you can.