Breaking the "Friend zone"

[Tommylad]

Hey everybody, just curious if it is possible to break the dreaded "friend zone"?
I've had feelings for a girl for a while now, we're really good mates.
I've stupidly told her how I feel, and it almost ruined our friendship, thankfully, we're still as tight as ever though :)
She values me as a friend, but doesn't see me any other way.
Is it a case of "time will tell"? Or am I going to just have to break the "oneitis" and move on?
Faaaanx

[tinkerbell23]

Hmmmm time will tell BUT i wouldnt sit & wait for her!! It might never happen and mrs right could be just around the corner so u dont want to miss her waiting for someonelse :0)

Good luck x

[ummmm]

It 'probably' will never happen. It's very hard, when you consider someone a close mate, to try and look at them in a different way.

[rowanwitch]

trust me...if she had any feelings that way you'd know... keep her as a mate and keep looking... good luck... if you are a man women like as a friend you've probably got some great qualities

[cazzrob]

My daughter and her friend crossed that boundary, and unfortunately they are no longer friends. partners come and go, but friends are for life.

[Sqad]

She's had her chance and "blown it"........move on to pastures new.

[whiskeysheri]

I'm in the same situation, but in your friend's position, Tommylad. I wish I could see my friend in that way, but you can't make yourself feel something you don't, unfortunately. Don't push for it, as it'll just make things uncomfortable and affect your friendship. If her feelings do happen to change one day, then great, but don't put your life on hold waiting for it. :)

[Tommylad]

Thanks for your responses guys :)
My head tells me to move on and get over her, but as always.. The heart disagree's lol
I'll move on sooner or later, hopefully sooner!

[beso]

Often the best thing to do is speak up. It almost always results in a rejection but it gets it out. Otherwise it is almost impossible to move on. Now you no longer wonder and can get on with your life.

Someone will fall head over for you just when you least expect it.