Bit of a deep personal question here, so brace yourselves.
Men, do you like a woman to be 'vocal' when you are making da love ? Does it make you feel more macho that you are doing a 'good job' or does too much noise put you off your stroke ?
Sat out in the garden a couple of summers back, the folk renting the house at the back had a guest whose comments and 'sounds' re. the alfresco buffet could easily have been misconstrued. I hope they felt their cooking was appreciated.
Wouldn't either word do here? I am very generously offering my services for free here. I was "done" some years ago but need to make completely sure the operation was a success. I need some help for that and that is where you lovely ladies come in.