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Today I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and I just don't know what to do or where to turn. I've been a member here for a good few years and tbh I don't really know why I'm posting this but I'm sat here alone crying and wondered if anyone had any practical advice form me.
Lisa x
Lisa x
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Hope you can get some decent sleep, Lisa. I will wish you sweet dreams as I believe you are a fighter ♥
00:57 Tue 20th Dec 2011
Do you know what Sqad...I was dreading your reply...but you have put a smile on my face! The missed test is duly forgotten!!!
NM....all I know for now is that I have cancer.....lol. The smear [hate that word] showed a carcinoma, I will hopefully be going for a colcoscopy [can say it let alone spell it] this week. I assume the result from that will tell me where it is and the treatment available.
Will let you all know as soon as I do!
Lisa x
NM....all I know for now is that I have cancer.....lol. The smear [hate that word] showed a carcinoma, I will hopefully be going for a colcoscopy [can say it let alone spell it] this week. I assume the result from that will tell me where it is and the treatment available.
Will let you all know as soon as I do!
Lisa x
No Sqad...you're not...just straight and to the point! I hear you have your own battle to fight right now.... so my turn with the advice [I know you don't really do the hugs and kisses thing.....well only with certain members ;0)]
So...you be good and get ya ass back here asap and not from a hospital bed!!!! Good luck, and I hope all goes well for you.
Lisa x
So...you be good and get ya ass back here asap and not from a hospital bed!!!! Good luck, and I hope all goes well for you.
Lisa x
Type Your Answer Here...It might be minor enough to be treated at the colposcopy... they will often take a 'cone biopsy' that actually often removes all the cancerous cells they will know this when they send the specimen to the labs... all they will do then is call you back for more frequent smears for a while
So
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Hi Lisa,
What a shock for you. But, as everyone has pointed out already on here, treatment for cancer has come forward so much.
My Brother had testicular cancer that had spread to his lung, liver, and stomach. With Chemo and drugs he has been clear now for over twenty years!
My sister had cervical cancer three years ago and with treatment she has been clear since also.
Stay positive Lisa, your children will give you the strength to beat it.
Hugs and more hugs.
Keep us updated.
xxx
What a shock for you. But, as everyone has pointed out already on here, treatment for cancer has come forward so much.
My Brother had testicular cancer that had spread to his lung, liver, and stomach. With Chemo and drugs he has been clear now for over twenty years!
My sister had cervical cancer three years ago and with treatment she has been clear since also.
Stay positive Lisa, your children will give you the strength to beat it.
Hugs and more hugs.
Keep us updated.
xxx
know how you feel divegirl - really I do - but 11 years down the line and am still annoying people!. get angry with 'it' - worked for me and all during my treatment was willing the chemo and radiotherapy to seek the b##t##d out, shrivel it up, nuke it - whatever - found it a great challel for my frustration and anger. Chin up, you'll be fine - it's the name not the disease that scares people. x
Hi Lisa. I did see this earlier, but was on my phone and wanted to reply when I could give my full attention.
I feel so sad for you, I really do. As Ummmm mentioned, my younger sister has recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer, so I can sort of relate to how you must be feeling.
As you say, it's the worst bloody time to try and get anything done quickly, what with the holidays. Rest assured though, they won't let you wait, just because it's Christmas. You're in the best possible hands now.
I've done quite a lot of research into Cervical cancer, and it's one of the easiest cancers to treat. So, try and stay positive... which I know is easier said than done :-(
The "good" thing about cervical cancer, is that they can literally just remove everything. I know that sounds really blunt and drastic, but think of it as a plus. You have two children already, so you are blessed in many ways. My sister hasn't been so lucky.
I'm not trying to compare, far from it, I'm just trying to make you realise that you're actually very fortunate already... it's those little things that will keep you going and will keep you strong.
First things first, you need to see what stage your cancer is at. My eldest sister actually had an abnormal smear, a couple of years ago, and it was fully treated with a small operation. It was literally zapped away. She was in and out in a day.
What I'm trying to say, is don't let your emotions run away just yet, as you don't know where you stand or what's next.
I was going to recommend a website called Jo's trust, but Chris has already suggested that to you.
That's the one my sister was told to look at, as you can chat to other women who are going through the same thing as you.. which always makes things a lot easier, talking to people who can fully understand what you're feeling.
Surround yourself with friends and family. Don't suffer in silence.
My sister was a complete mess for the first couple of weeks, and just cried and cried. It was absolutely heartbreaking, but she's now very strong, and positive that she'll beat this! She's had her op, and she starts chemo and radiotherapy in a couple of weeks time, but she's remarkably upbeat.
Come on here to talk, it really does help. There's always someone around, no matter what time... although if it's a random hour, you're likely to get someone who's intoxicated and may not make much sense. They'll be such to make you laugh though! :))
There's loads more I want to say, but I think it's important to wait until you know where you stand with it all, first.
On another note, it's really important that you eat well. I know it's Christmas, but try and eat as much raw fruit and vegetables as possible. Obviously it won't get rid of what you've got, but it's vital to good health. Unprocessed and uncooked foods are best... things like fresh fruits and vegetables, seeds, sprouts, grains, nuts, beans, and seaweed are all really, really good for you and will help you with your fight against cancer.
I'm happy to give you an email address, if you want to chat some more. I've done tons of research over the past few weeks and, as I said, I can kind of relate to what you're going through.
I don't think anyone truly knows the effect this has on someone, unless you've been there yourself. I can't offer you any personal experience, but I can offer you some good second-hand experience, and a friendly shoulder to cry on :-)
I wish you all the best, I really do. My thoughts are with you. xx
I feel so sad for you, I really do. As Ummmm mentioned, my younger sister has recently been diagnosed with cervical cancer, so I can sort of relate to how you must be feeling.
As you say, it's the worst bloody time to try and get anything done quickly, what with the holidays. Rest assured though, they won't let you wait, just because it's Christmas. You're in the best possible hands now.
I've done quite a lot of research into Cervical cancer, and it's one of the easiest cancers to treat. So, try and stay positive... which I know is easier said than done :-(
The "good" thing about cervical cancer, is that they can literally just remove everything. I know that sounds really blunt and drastic, but think of it as a plus. You have two children already, so you are blessed in many ways. My sister hasn't been so lucky.
I'm not trying to compare, far from it, I'm just trying to make you realise that you're actually very fortunate already... it's those little things that will keep you going and will keep you strong.
First things first, you need to see what stage your cancer is at. My eldest sister actually had an abnormal smear, a couple of years ago, and it was fully treated with a small operation. It was literally zapped away. She was in and out in a day.
What I'm trying to say, is don't let your emotions run away just yet, as you don't know where you stand or what's next.
I was going to recommend a website called Jo's trust, but Chris has already suggested that to you.
That's the one my sister was told to look at, as you can chat to other women who are going through the same thing as you.. which always makes things a lot easier, talking to people who can fully understand what you're feeling.
Surround yourself with friends and family. Don't suffer in silence.
My sister was a complete mess for the first couple of weeks, and just cried and cried. It was absolutely heartbreaking, but she's now very strong, and positive that she'll beat this! She's had her op, and she starts chemo and radiotherapy in a couple of weeks time, but she's remarkably upbeat.
Come on here to talk, it really does help. There's always someone around, no matter what time... although if it's a random hour, you're likely to get someone who's intoxicated and may not make much sense. They'll be such to make you laugh though! :))
There's loads more I want to say, but I think it's important to wait until you know where you stand with it all, first.
On another note, it's really important that you eat well. I know it's Christmas, but try and eat as much raw fruit and vegetables as possible. Obviously it won't get rid of what you've got, but it's vital to good health. Unprocessed and uncooked foods are best... things like fresh fruits and vegetables, seeds, sprouts, grains, nuts, beans, and seaweed are all really, really good for you and will help you with your fight against cancer.
I'm happy to give you an email address, if you want to chat some more. I've done tons of research over the past few weeks and, as I said, I can kind of relate to what you're going through.
I don't think anyone truly knows the effect this has on someone, unless you've been there yourself. I can't offer you any personal experience, but I can offer you some good second-hand experience, and a friendly shoulder to cry on :-)
I wish you all the best, I really do. My thoughts are with you. xx
That was very kind of you to give so much detail, flip, typos and all - who cares about those. So much pragmatic advice.
The key thing divegirl is to take it step by step and the chances of a full cure are very high......It is a shock - any cancer is. Do make sure you contact a professional counselling service as suggested.
Our thoughts are with you - and if you are awake tonight, just read the replies here and you should gain some comfort from this.
And be open with your kids, if they are old enough to understand. It's when the love of a family is so valuable. Have you told other family members yet as there may be a lot of love and support there to all of you?
The key thing divegirl is to take it step by step and the chances of a full cure are very high......It is a shock - any cancer is. Do make sure you contact a professional counselling service as suggested.
Our thoughts are with you - and if you are awake tonight, just read the replies here and you should gain some comfort from this.
And be open with your kids, if they are old enough to understand. It's when the love of a family is so valuable. Have you told other family members yet as there may be a lot of love and support there to all of you?
