What shall i do?!

[J13-JA-11D]

I am 15 years old and 16 in a month i am in a strong relationship with my 18 year old boyfriend who i have been with for a year. I am on the pill but i forgot too take it a week before my period wass due, and i had sex with my boyfriend that day forgetting to tell him that i forgot the pill ( i am very forgetfull sometimes) and i did have a period but it was a very strange one, it was different colour and lasted longer but was quite light, i have been having a bad pain in my stomache, i get sick in the morning, i get dizzy, and urinate more and feel more sleepy and going off some of my faviourate foods! Could this mean i am pregnant? and also when i was born i suffered through cancer and they think i may not be able to have a baby?i am meant to be having a test done to see whether i can when i am 16, i really would love to keep the baby if i am pregnant as it would be one of the best things that have ever happened to me, i know i am young but i think i am mature enough to have one but my boyfriend is worried about wether we have enough money to bring one up and he says he doesnt want one until we are older, but i also will find it hard to deal with an abortion and it will destroy me i wouldnt be able to live with it but how do i tell my boyfriend it? :/ Any ideas??

[factor-fiction]

Have you taken a pregnancy test?

[argorstran]

See your GP to find out if you are definitely pregnant .
If you are and you want the baby , then go ahead and have it (unless your GP advises against it for medical reasons) . I'm sure your boyfriend will change his mind once he's holding his own child in his arms . Avoid mentioning that your boyfriend is 18 because strictly speaking he (and you ) are breaking the law .
There are a number of sites on the internet that offer support for teenage mums - I did a search and this is one of many that came up :
http://www.bubbalicious.co.uk/
I'm sure that friends , family and your local church (vicar or priest) would offer you support . Best of luck - I hope it goes well for you .

[4getmenot]

just take a test. If you are mature enough at 15 to be on the pill then I'm sure you are mature enough to go and buy a test. You need to know as soon as because if you carry on taking pill whilst pregnant it may harm baby.

[AshleyJo2]

Talk this over with you boyfriend.. Maybe even a trusted family member.. If you are pregnant and do not want the baby, carry it to term and then give him/her up for adoption..