I was the donee of a LPA and my father was taking into a nursing home in 2005. He qualified for NHS funding as he was subject to continuous falls and prone to violence so no nursing home fees were payable.
I was told at the time he was only likely to live for a year but he passed away in October 2011.
The home was 25 miles away as it was the only one which would take him. I was retired and visted most days ( a 50 mile round trip ).
I am the only daughter. My sister passed away in 2001.
I did ask the Court of Protection for advice on expenses as my car was covering about 18,000 miles a year just visiting and running around for Dad.
Petrol was getting expensive. I did about 3,000 miles of my own so the total mileage was about 21,000 per year.
Tyres were only lasting 12 months as I had a Honda Jazz and it had to be serviced every 7 months and the insurance was more expensive as not many pensioners do 21,000 miles a year.
The only answer I got from the Court of Protection was I was the only one who knew Dad and if I was satisfied he would have wanted me to incurr all these expenses for the visits I could take them.
Early in 2010 I phoned the Court of Protection to say my car had done 110,000 miles and could I take some money from my fathers funds to replace it and the answer was yes but I must allow for my own mileage.
I also took for chrisps, sausage rolls, wine etc.
As it happened a court of protection visitor came to the home just after I replaced the car mainly paid for from my father's funds She glanced at the accounts and noticed my claim for £8,000 for the car and she just asked me what would my father have wanted me to do. I did say that I am sure he would not want me to be driving around in a car which was becomong less reliable and the guarage said it would need some expensive repairs soon anyway and I think my father would have not wanted me to pay for them and probably need a new car a few months later anyway.
She then said even though I spent a lot of money on behalf of my father as far as she was concerned they were reasonable and there was no point not visiting as there was no point me saving his moner for him to be the richest man in the graveyard and I was only really reducing my inheritance anyway.
Sandy