do you take forever to make up your mind

[emmie]

as i get older it seems to take longer and longer to make a decision about almost everything. Where once i was decisive and straightforward, now it's hard to make even simple choices, are you the same, is it age ?

[brenda]

I find decision making much easier as I have got older. When we were all living together as family , and I was younger at that time , decisions took me a while to make because of their implications on others.

Now as there is just myself I can make a decision at once, because there is only myself to catch any fall-out.Do I always get things right? Of course not.
But if I have made a wrong decision - so what --forget it, and move on as they say.

[emmie]

brenda, i find the opposite, i dither, a very irritating trait

[TheOtherHalf]

I suppose thats a `yes ' then. and I think that must be a record for me, or is it ?