Am I expecting too much?

[indian]

I listen to my friends, take care of them when things are going not so well, and now they've all get men I don't get a reply to a text message for days after even though they're constantly texting their men?

[I_Tried]

Indian Txt me i'll txt ya back heheheh and where r u in the Uk Mr T.. xxxx

[I_Tried]

Dunno what you're expecting but i aint had a reply from you Indian you plasying games now lol Mr T. xxx

[JudgeJ]

You might try going out, meeting and speaking to people instead of trying to conduct your life over the airwaves.

[I_Tried]

gosh jUDGEJ your abit stiff chill out take a seat and enjoy life Mr.T I'll die before i'll fly

[Drusilla]

Friendships are forever changing and I'm sure they still appreciate your interest, even if they are not as responsive as you would prefer. Remember, they're in love, so they're not thinking straight at the moment and you are.

[I_Tried]

Drusilla, they are thinking straight the just dont want interefernce in their love life from an ex best freind i.e Indian

Mr. T "A crazy fool" xxxx

[mimififi]

I don't think you are asking too much Indian. Just because you might be falling in love doesn't mean you should forget who your friends are...

I'm sorry you are feeling down about this right now. I hope things sort themselves out and you find some friends who don't forget you when the next pair of trousers comes along.

[JudgeJ]

Well, I_Tried, I do enjoy life. Very much so, in fact. The difference is, I try to enjoy it live rather than as an action replay!

[indian]

Ha ha ha Mr T! I've only just met you, and your already expecting me to dump all my friends for you! Ex-friend!

JudgeJ, sometimes it's imposible to meet up with the people you care about everyday. Just because I text them instead, doesn't mean I don't have a life (actually, I don't, but it's the principle of the matter!)

[indieanna86]

I've had the same problem, in fact I fell out with my best friend for a year because of a guy she went out with. I just happened to mention to her that she'd only ever see me if her bf was busy etc. She replied by telling me that I was sad, stupid and needed to get a life. Love does strange things to people. But if the day comes that they split with their men, they will always come crawling back - I know from experience!! I know it sounds annoying but all you can do is wait, or maybe try making new friends?

Its definitely not too much to ask, I know that when I'm seeing a guy I always make time for my friends because I know how much it can hurt to be forgotten about. After all, there's plenty of guys out there, but friends should stick together. Sounds very 'Trisha' but its true...

[joko]

sometime people are just busy and preoccupied with other things - did they reply straight away before? or are you only noticing it now?

perhaps, if your questions are about meeting up, they want to wait until they have check with their man first

stupid i know, but if your partner can only see you on certain days because of work etc, most people will work around this

i don't always reply immediately to texts because I am in the middle of something else or I need to consider the reply, and it irritates me when i get another text 2 minutes later saying ;' did you get my text' ' or are you ok' etc. people expect you to drop everything to reply, even when its just a 'how are you text'.

why not text them a few minutes later and say 'did you get my text?' or say in the text that you need a reply asap so you can do other things.

it is very annoying when you are with some one chatting and they keep texting, even when you are talking, one ex friend used to text under the table while i was talking, instead of saying 'hang on a sec' or something

[I_Tried]

Indian

[I_Tried]

Indian, am not expecting u to drop anyone buut me lol , am king of the blow outs lmao as for judgej is'nt it cold enuff for u outside to chill rather than having digs at sweet innocent women like indian come come indian lol i'll look after you even if your freinds don't

Mr T. a crazy fool

[funnywebsite]

Yes it happens all the time. I had a best friend and we saw each other every weekend but when she fell in love our friendship was never the same again. She was always making excuses and then when she phoned me to go out I realised she was just using me because her other half was busy that day. People get busy and lives more on.