Thoughtful Friends

[gness]

Today is the anniversary of my husband`s death. The week in hospital before he died was horrendous and I have very painful memories of what happened to him.
Yet today I feel happy. I have had cards, flowers and "thinking of you" messages from friends. Doesn`t thoughtfulness give you a lift?

[gness]

That`s ok ex. Four years seems a long time but as I said the two years of everything being raked over and over seemed to make it worse and there is a healing process which seemed to keep going back to square one. I`m fine, moved house last year and have lots of interests but, little things pop up now and again to trigger a memory.

[sunny-dave]

Have a friendly {{hug}} from me too - I enjoy your input to AB and hope that it continues to amuse/entertain/support you in return :+)

dave xx

[gness]

Thank you so much SD. I am so glad I found AB. It certainly amuses/entertains/supports me. The hug was lovely.

[DTCwordfan]

Wait for the Mad 50s if you want some laughs, gness.....totally crazyover there (8pm Lady Alex and Mamya leading)

[ummmm]

4 years is not a long time when you lose someone you love. The time flies :-( xx

[cathfromsaron]

sorry to hear about that, and yes very kind!

sending hugs! x

[gness]

Yes Ummmm. Had three guys ask me out in the first year...one three weeks after his wife died. For me four years seems like yesterday.
Mad 50s DT? Am I missing something or am I being thick?

[DTCwordfan]

Its a thread that will start up at 8pm - each Saturday night.....Absolutely mad....try it.....there's even a raffle and you will soon pick up on the characters (Lady A, Alexandered, PolarBear, Mrs O, LieInKing, Lady J, nungate, sunnyd, Alba, (sometimes TTFN), petal, flump, many many others.....

[gness]

Thank you DT. Completely stupid with a computer but will give it a try. I never win a raffle but the person next to me always does. Fights have broken out amongst my friends to stand next to me when buying tickets.

[ummmm]

It's in Q&P gness.

[gness]

Thanks Ummmm.

[Mamyalynne]

Gness - it would be great if you popped by to see us, we are quite silly but is good fun, try to bring something totally ridiculous for the raffle LOL

[gness]

Will do my best mamy. Thank you.