jealous???

[greeneyes]

i met my boyfriend on the internet and we have been going out for 2 yrs,he lives 300 miles away from me.however he still goes to chat rooms and chats to woman.he tells me that its because he is bored and he tells them he has a girlfriend.im still jealous and it causes arguments from me.am i being daft???

[rampart]

Hmmmmmmmmmm.... this does not sound good to me. He sounds honest. I mean, he is telling you what he is doing. But why would he put himself in a place of temptation? It is like going to a singles bar. That's fine, but could lead to trouble, I suppose.

[maggie01]

If you have been going out with him for 2 yrs, is there no way one of you could move closer to the other? I know they say absence makes the heart grow fonder but you can't get to see each other too often I wouldn't imagine. As rampart says it doesn't sound too good.

[Dreaming]

How would he feel if you were doing the same thing? After 2 years together, I too would of thought you could of moved nearer to each other. If not, surely this relationship cannot move on. And No I do not think you are being daft. You are being human.

[funnywebsite]

Stop being jealous! You cannot control somebodies mind. It is pointless trying. If he was actually sleeping with them it is a different matter. Talking is harmless. You are doing well to keep a relationship going with a 300 mile gap over 2 years. He could be down the pub physically chatting to them and taking them home everynight. Try and trust him unless there is evidence of hankypanky. Being jealous gets people nowhere. At he end of the day fate will kick in. 300 miles is a long way for you not just him. You might move on and find someone else without even looking.

[undercovers]

findout what user name he has - sign up to one of his websites as foxy-miss-foxton (or something) and try and seduce him.. if he goes for it arranges a meet or something - send a your dumped you cad email Alternatively if you have trust issues and he lives 300 miles away maybe the relationship is fizzling out and you are just looking for an alternative reason for ending the relationship...

i should write an agony aunt column - i'm good at this - maybe

[Paris_Hilton]

i had a relationship like that, i thought i could completely trust him cos he seemed sooo sincere. my friends of course told me not to keep going out with him, but i continued. then i went and looked at his profile, to see that girls had been leaving messages to him, replying to things he has said to me, such as 'i miss you too, baby. i cant wait to see you' etc. so i clicked on those girls profiles and, sure enough, he had left the same messages he has said to me. and i knew that no one can really, truly trust someone online. i hope this has helped you x