I think the site is good CaraSS, its informative to a few that are in need of help, its helpful to them that will listen, its helpful when someone else is going through the same type of trauma but cannot find the solution to a problem that's looking at you in the eyes but you can't see it. to some the site can be a way to try & be clever with their unhelpful sarcastic remarks & thrive on, but as to how many are using this site, you've had 12 replies up to now so it must be working.