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i thought i'd update you. we got a cancellation and my son has been seen this month
we were in for over and hour and my son was pretty much the same in the hospital as he behaved at home which was good that they could see what i'm dealing with. he was throwing toys 7 foot in the air, there was a lady that was trying to play with him and he tried to poke her in the eyes. he was climbing up on the units, spitting on me... the list goes on but they got a good idea of why i was there
she does think more people need to be involved which i thought was good as i was worried they'd think its just the terrible 2's and i'm being silly. but that was the complete opposite
she wants to refer him for hearing tests, see speach therapists and there was one other person she wanted involved that comes to the hospital every few months. but due my sons tantrum i missed some bits.
she also wants a local behavioural nursery to be involved and she thinks the health visitor should be seeing him more.