Is there anything you wish you had asked ?

[weecalf]

Looking back is there anything you wished you had asked someone and now the moment has gone and you may never know .Remember a man said to me he would not drive a nail in on Good Friday now was he saying in other term he would do no work on that day or because of the day it is he would not as he said drive a nail in to a piece of wood .Hes dead now so will never know.Should have asked what he actually ment .Dosent matter but often think of him and what he said.

[cupid04]

Who put the bop in the bob shoo Bob?

[murraymints]

or the ding a ding ding in the ding di gong di go ?

[NOX]

Mrs O- I'd relax if I were you, genes pop up all over the place and produce the odd black sheep for example my daughter Sha'ori was born to me black hair blue eyes and my wife dark hair blue eyes and had chestnut red hair and eyes so dark they were practically black. More than one clever person implied she might not be mine, although I never doubted it for a moment, to the point where my wife gotso cross she got a DNA test done and sent the people concerned a copy- which revealed that she was in fact my daughter. Endless websites will even tell you that two blue eyed people can't have a black eyed child, but the fact is we did and upon closer inspection of sites that really know what they're talking about, oh yes it's perfectly possible. I would tell your brother not to worry, it's a cruel and stupid thing for people to say, either that or get a DNA test with one of the midget variety of your family to see if you are full siblings, but genes are fascinating and I'll bet there is nothing at all untoward, just stupid unkind people.

[ummmm]

Could that have not been the same for him?

[TheOtherHalf]

I wish me and OH had asked lots of family questions whilst fathers were stilll alive. My mother comes out with little snippets every so often and I write them down quick before she forgets them. Being interested in family history, I would love to have known why quite a few things happened which doesnt make any sense to us at the moment. So ask whilst you can

[rowanwitch]

He worked in Child care I was a career prospects improvement accessory

[emmie]

why my father told my mother he didn't think i was his, happy families.

[rowanwitch]

perhaps it was because you were thoughtful and sensitive by the sound of it Em10

[emmie]

he was a bstard as it happens, and she only told me a few years back. I didn't learn of his death till a lot after, so no way to ask anything at any rate. They divorced when i was young, so we didn't have any contact.

[weecalf]

Thanks for replies some of which must have taken courage to write .