hello everyone thanks for answers. Phoebe is doing ok - she is now 4lb 5 oz (up from her birthweight of 3lb 1 oz)
She is still on oxygen but goes for short periods without it. She is in an open cot, rather than incubator and is maintaining her own temp. has gone to 4 hourly tube feeds but has sucked at the breast every day this week (although falls asleep easily and only takes a few mls herself)
they are saying we should start preparing for her coming home in the next few weeks (we still don't actually have anything at all baby related - no pram, no cot, no nappies, no bath, no changing table etc)
this is her singing elvis
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and this is her first cuddle with grandma
http://i26.photobucke...dford1/DSC01090-1.jpg