Tantric

[DJKC]

I have heard that Trantic sex can be very good, what is it and where can i learn more. How would my wife be if i introduced her to this?

[Quizmonster]

It has been beautifully described as like waiting for the plumber..."You stay in all day and nobody comes." This is a reference to the fact that making the sexual encounter last and last, without necessarily reaching the normally-expected conclusion, is a key element.

[Laurinha]

I reackon your wife would be DE-LIGHTED! (I would anyway!)

[Cymbeline]

Quizmonster is a little bit cynical. Methinks he's a bloke who prefers the end result to the journey you take? You can incorporate some tantric moments into "usual" sex just by staring deep into each others eyes during love making and trying to synchronise your breathing. Do I sound like Miriam stoppard? lol

[MangoPete]

Tantric sex isn't very good at all

it is the ONLY way to go and not too difficult as even us men can do it.

Your wife will think she has died and gone to orgasm heaven and so will you.

men can achieve more than one orgasm once you experience this with your partner though quickies are sometimes nice a banquet once tasted can seldom be bettered

It is a wonderful journey for you both.

There are lots of books on Tantirc sex and also videos.You could go away for a weekend or upto two weeks to learn it, but I learnt at home. Dont go and waste your money in a sleazy sex shop though look on amazon and maybe even somewhere like borders. There are plenty of PROPER web sites
Tantic sex is a mind body and spirit thing therefore I feel its better to learn about it in books to understand the psche of it although PROPER videos can also be good.

you can tell you wife you want to give her more pleasure and would like to try tantric sex or read up on it and surprise her.
Enjoy

[Quizmonster]

Re my supposed cynicism...what utter nonsense, Cymbeline! I made it clear, I thought, that my earlier response was a quote from someone else. Actually, it was John Mortimer, the playwright, who wrote the 'Rumpole of the Bailey' scripts amongst other things. Maybe he's a cynic, I don't know. On the other hand, maybe he was just trying to make a joke...as I was.

[Oneeyedvic]

Tony Parsons uses the 'plumber' quote in Man & Boy - just read the paragraph this morning

[tracymort]

Another one here thinking lucky wife! I wish my husband thought of things like that!
If you have the money I think they run courses in such things at the Coco de Mer shop or they would know of someone I expect if they don't.