Just a rant to my lovelies here .......

[Smowball]

Not a question, just an unburdening really. Hubbie drove 130 miles AGAIN to try and pick up his daughter on friday, and yet again came away without her ( has been 6 months now) and myself and youngest smow have born the brunt of his upset and frustration all weekend, to the point that he was positively vile tonight. I cant even begin to imagine how he is feeling, but it isnt our fault and I have run out of ways to handle this. ok rant over........

[Smowball]

Thanks tinks, much appeciated x

You're right, we have no idea what mum is telling child but I just dont know how much more rejection he can take - think I would have lost the plot by now.

[gness]

Smo. How would he cope with pulling back for a while? I know it may seem like playing into ex`s hands but with a bitter ex there is no winning whatever you do.
Lots else for you both to deal with now and it must be taking its toll on you both.x

[Smowball]

gness - his parents said exactly the same thing to me yesterday, but he is having none of it. We hav spent literally thousands, yet when she breaks every order WE have to pay to take her back to court! Mad.

[gness]

I know Smo. There is something that won`t let us stop trying isn`t there? Had that to a degree with my sister. Forever dancing on hot coals to her tune. Pulled back, or rather was pushed back and here I`ve stayed this time. Much more difficult with a child though. Sorry you are going through all this.x

[Smowball]

Morning(or afternoon). Thanks all for letting me sound off last night, sometimes its all just too frustrating