I don't want sympathy, just a chat.....

[Smowball]

Have had the worst 24 hrs ever - buried my mums sister yesterday(my aunt) then tonight my husband packed a suitcase and walked out. Have had to deal with an incredibly upset son, my own emotions, a splitting headache and the upset from yesterday. He may be back, who knows, but I really dont need this

On another positive note, strongly helped by Mr smirnoff, Well done in the mens doubles at Wimbledon!

[NoMercy]

Smow, MM has given you some top notch advice.

A word of warning... Your OH will lie to everyone about you and will endeavour to tarnish your reputation to mitigate for his unpardonable behaviour. Just remember one thing: you and did not deserve this. X

[cathfromsaron]

(((hugs)))

do you have joint finances?

i would segregate right now, or you will be paying for other people's entertainment!

hope things work out!

cath x

[Polly1958]

smow,from what I picked up on an earlier thread you seem to enjoy the time when he wasn't there.I have was in a similar situation years ago,we divorced and 6 months later after promising me the world I took him back for the sake of the children.Six months on and he was up to his old tricks,we split again and it was so hard for the children, I felt so guilty that they had to see us part again.Yes,it will be difficult to begin with,but you deserve better.Good luck.x

[murraymints]

oops wrong emailaddress...should [email protected]

[sunny-dave]

Morning Smow - if there is any way (either emotional or practical) that bouncing stuff off a male rather than female friend will help, then you can find me via Kizzy's facebook friends list - the only 'dave' and a picture of a biker ...

[Smowball]

Awww thanks Dave, I definitely will.

[CailinDeas]

Been thinking 'bout Smowball. Has anybody seen her? Is she OK?

[Flyhalf]

Seen, as in real life, or in this virtual world of ours?
If the latter, click on th avatar at the top and you'll see her recent postings.

[CailinDeas]

Thank you. I had done that, but wondered if there was an update on her own situation.

[CailinDeas]

Do tell, odhammer, which finishing school taught you such impeccable manners and finesse.

[Ann]

I wondered what you meant owdhamer? Did you mean to be unkind to Smowball, as it sounded?

[CailinDeas]

Thank you Ed.

[Smowball]

OOh, what was said??