I have got to ask this of Sqad and Whiskyron

[gness]

I look forward to two answers to which there will be no reply because I hate arguments...just not as much as pomposity and thoughtlessness.

Faced with a taxi bill of between £250 and £300 a week for eleven years for hospital treatment, friends and relatives only able to help on some of the trips and no way of finding that money, what exactly would you do? There is no possibility of moving closer to the hospital because one of you is also a carer for a mother with dementia.

Do be brave enough to answer. I am not being awkward. I really want to know.

Gx

[gness]

Lottie. Both Ron and Sqad answered an unasked question with cruel and thoughtless comments making people in or having been in bad situations very uncomfortable and in my case hurt.
Sqad then gave an ill informed and unhelpful answer to my question.
I hope they are both feeling ashamed and wishing they had kept quiet.

[Sqad]

gness.....no, not at all ashamed......just voicing an opinion.

[gness]

Tambo. That is very kind of you but we would have been very lucky to find someone so frequently for so many years who could agree to drive someone forty miles home 3 times a week with a pick up time of between 4 and 9 pm.
And who could then be still bleeding from a fistula or vomiting. It`s not like giving a healthy fit person a lift. It really did have many complications.

[gness]

You were not asked for that opinion. Neither was Ron. The original question was far too sensitive for your cruel responses.

Thank god for people like Sunny-Dave who read, and more importantly understood the question, acted on it and provided a solution.

[tinkerbell23]

Hugs for my ma xx

[gness]

God I`m slow sometimes! Just re-read some posts and realised why you suggested we ask Ed to close this thread. :-)