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I don't know whether I like it or not but either way it is here to stay, so I'm just going to try to understand it as best I can and make the best of it!
One more question however:
the private group that I am in . . . I have had a look at my security settings and they seem to be the same as they were before timeline, but do I need to do anything else to make sure that only the correct people can see what I type in the private group? Eg when I look in my 'Activity Log' it shows posts from the private group and when I hover over the small circle to the right of the comment it says "allowed on timeline". But I don't want all my friends to see those private comments, just the people in the private group.
Oh lordy I hope that all made sense!