What part of NO

[queenofmean]

do men not understand.....answers on a postcard please

[Barmaid]

I thought "flump off" was fairly final.......

Just ignore him Queenie. He is not worthy if he doesn't listen.

[nungate]

Why not let loose the "rottweiler"

[queenofmean]

Job done.....hes on my blocked list now...thank heavens

[nungate]

So, my inner rottweiler has to return to the kennel? Ho hum.

[Barmaid]

Lol, well done QoM. Although I'd have wanted to tell him to do the other thing before i blocked him.

Remind me one day to tell me about Mr Fireman and his burning desire - and consequently, his brush with Dorset police.......

Not now, ASBO requires my presence under the duvet.

[woofgang]

Not sure why you even hesitated about blocking?

[Barmaid]

To tell "you", not "me". For Funks Sake. Looking at cars all day has addled my brain.

[nungate]

She calls herself the Queen of Mean Woof, but she's anything but - prickly on the outside total marshmallo on the inside!

[gness]

Set your Mum on him Queen.

[queenofmean]

its ok Barmaid I understood....my brain is in the same 'mushy' mode.
Mum he's not the type i'd let you loose with
Woofgang.....the reason I hesitated was because he is of a different culture to myself and very shy but at the same time very needy. He didn't have very good social skills with us ladies. Apart from that he was too young for me. I had to wait for the right moment as it were to block him

[queenofmean]

oh and barmaid give ASBO a pat from myself

[nungate]

She only told me when I spotted this question Gness which is why I offered my services (she calls me the rottweiler - probably why she only brings home lads that she isn't remotely romantically interested in - I never get to meet beaux she might be involved with. Gee I must be scary!

[queenofmean]

you are scary mum

[naomi24]

You say he's a very nice person, but if he won't accept that you don't want to meet or swap numbers, then he is not the person you think he is. Beware!

[queenofmean]

I know what I've said is a bit contradictory but, its the needy part that made me not want to swap numbers...i mean i could nip to the loo or go away to get a snack and would come back to 3 or 4 messages...i dread to think what the amount of texts would be. I understand the dangers of meeting people online and I have to say I have been very lucky so far but if I am not comfortable when chatting or they instantly want to swap numbers coz its 'easier' then i block and delete.

[woofgang]

Your Mum and others have probably already said this to you a MILLION times but even assuming what he has told you is true, his problems are not your problems....

[jomifl]

Headwreck,I didn't say you need to explain the 'No' but qualification as in 'absolutely not' might get the message across more firmly.

[NoMercy]

Is there not a facility where you can report your concerns about someone?

He sounds like he's sixpence short of a schilling.