This is rather embarrasing but ive been seeing a guy slowly for a while, after a long time alone after splitting with my daughters dad. So i havent , well been intimate with a guy for a while! It feels like its going that way with this guy and i am so nervous! Its like being a virgin all over again?! How can i curb my nerves????I think i may have to get drunk!!
Have a nice candle- lit meal with a glass of wine or two
Snuggle up together on the sofa and just enjoy each others company.
Kiss and cuddle each other and take it from there.
There is no rush, especially if you're both feeling bruised from previous relationships. Hope everything works out for you. Cupid04. xx
thank u for ur replies. To be honest i didnt think i would find anyone again, sort of resigned myself to that fact, so come as a bit of surprise and while lovely, totally scares me!!!
if you have feelings for this guy things will happen automatically!! You dont have to get drunk you might regret it later. I was in the same situation as you and now I am happy with the guy. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. Honesty is always best!