I look at all the crossword postings and I love to see how the clever answerers explain why the cryptic clues provide the answers they do. I am not a total thicky but I do struggle with cryptic crosswords
Many years ago we used to have a morning DT crossword race in the office. Best time was about 15 minutes. We all stopped doing it when DT started giving answers over the phone.
I struggle as long as I can and then, in order to hang on to the little sanity I have left, I ask you lot. X and bless you, you always come up with the goods
The point is Mc that sometimes an answer just eludes you and being an avid puzzler you have to know the answer...So the best place to ask is among on- line friends and fellow puzzlers, where hopefully no-one treats you like a thicko or takes the proverbial. It's not cheating, I bet most people that complete crosswords don't even send them in.
i never send them in, no point, but some crosswords can absorb you for a while, and for those hard to understand clues, there are fellow ABers, or other internet sites for help. It's not cheating, it's asking for help.