It's odd, in present times, for anyone to be concerned about being thought jewish or to think that, if anyone alludes to it, they have anti-semitic feelings. When I was a new law student, lunching in hall, I was surprised to hear a girl ask "Are you Jewish?" of her neighbour. The answer in the positive was followed by a chorus of students saying that they were Jewish too, and discussions of which tribe they belonged to and what their Hebrew name was. I could sense a whole Jackie Mason routine in the making! She,of course, was Jewish herself.Even forty years ago, had it occurred to me, a non-Jew. to ask,the response would have been cautious, and best they'd have thought me meshugge (mad or eccentric).
But now, I thought,those days were gone and I'm surprised at an innocent remark being taken as insensitive or , in some way , hostile. Few, if any apart, perhaps, from some of the very old and the rabid, have any anti-semitic feelings. The rest have none and may be simply curious. Not all of us were the only goy (non-Jewish) members of 'the sons of the covenant' when students, but then not all of us had a Jewish friend who got bonus points for each fellow student she could recruit !