Leaving a partner

[phleb]

we have a home together, have a joint mortgage on it. I am now thinking of leaving him, and want to move away. I have no money to do that. I need to know how would it work in regards to our house. Im leaving because i don't want to live my life stressed all the time, if i go out, im being texted all day until i get home. he says get back!! i went for a shopping trip an hour and a half away, and he kept texting me saying get back, why you not set off earlier, thus making me drive fast and putting myself at risk on the motorway, just because i was scared of all the shouting that would happen when i get home. Today i got my uniform for my new job, and he says its too short, sort it or you cant work there. I am so drained and really need to leave before i break down. I have 2 kids, both at school. Please give me some advice. In addition to the above, there are other things that have made me feel like this. He resents me for not getting pregnant, his tests came back fine, so now thats another weapon he uses to say i can't have more kids, and im a fat sh+t, i am a bit over weight, just a stone, and will work on it, but due to all the depression i can;t concentrate. I am not sleeping at all at night. I am exhausted.

[starone]

I feel so sorry for you, especially as you are so tired. I really cannot understand how you can love a man like this who puts you down all the time and obviously does not reciprocate your feelings. Could you find a place to go with the children, there are places for abused wives and their kids. And then see a solicitor to arrange about the house and if necessary to get a restraining order against him.