I feel sad today

[inamuddle1]

I want to tell you all how sorry for myself I feel tonight, because I'm in a fatasticly romantic/feeling sorry for myself mood.

I'm romanticising everything. Maybe its the time of year that makes me feel this way.

I met a man nearly 2 years ago, he's not the best man, but I liked him. The whole situation has come to an end, not a nasty end, I suppose I can be happy for that, and if Im honest, I'm best without this guy, but I miss the excitement he gave me.

[Tilly2]

Oh, dear. Can you not find someone else?

[craft1948]

Are you having 'withdrawal' symptoms?

[Purple_Popple]

Sorry to hear of your situation, very very sad for you, you must feel quite at a loss ? At least you are quite certain that it is the right decision, but it doesnt make it any easier.

[inamuddle1]

Yes, at some point im sure... I liked this guy, but he has a child, and a partner. I've leaned a lesson. To avoid feeling like this, avoid impossible men. x

[tonyav]

Yep, agree with Tilly, get out there and find another man, plenty more fish in the sea and all that.

[tonyav]

Oh gawd, that crafty is back on form lol.

[inamuddle1]

Yes, withdrawels... Humffffff x

[boxtops]

Be glad you're out of it, muddle..... he wasn't yours to have, you know that.

[inamuddle1]

yeah I know :( It doesnt stop me feeling sad, lonely and a little used. And still I miss this guy!! Thanks guys, I'm really down in the dumps about this... x

[inamuddle1]

He was exciting.

[boxtops]

other people's husbands are, muddle - it's the risk you take. Better out of it, really, and he was never free to love you.

[inamuddle1]

But yes, best out of it. Plenty more fish in the sea,and as I said, I'm in a romantic / soppy mood... He was never mine.

[inamuddle1]

I feel like crying but I'm in work... and I dont want my collegues to know... x

[inamuddle1]

Blah blah blah :') Im just feeling sorry for myself.

[boxtops]

Shake your shoulders, muddle - it was good but it's an era in your life which has closed now - it will hurt for a bit, but you'll rise above it.

[inamuddle1]

Yeah I know, and it's my own fault too. Stupit situation. x

[hippyhoppy]

Can I be double sad... Daugher has wafted off to Australia, I have to work Christmas day, family are flitting off to matlock.. so X-mas will be me with a marmite sandwich.. with no daughter for 8 months...

[inamuddle1]

Well why dont you phone some friends up and go spend some good times with good people, and do something different for a change??

For the record, I did not know this guy was in a relationship, he told me they were seperated... :) Then he told me they got back together... Lies lies lies

[inamuddle1]

I wish you a beautiful Christmas, I hope you find a way to make it special, and congratulations to your daughter for making her adventures!!! :) Be happy!