Don't know how to handle this?

[bmw7ftw]

hi im an 18 years old male and lately ive got attracted in a girl again... i know her for some time already but the last time i tryed to get to know her more i constantly had perfomance anxiety so i quitted the contact with her ... i still want to try it because everytime we had a conversation or contact she was sounding excited and i got the feeling if i put more effort in it now there maybe could grow something out of it but i don't know how to handle this? and it may be weird if i now start texting her again out of nothing ?

[TTG]

Ask her how she is and if she has plans (you can get an idea then if she is single). If she is single, suggest meeting up for a daytime coffee somewhere and how it would be good to have a catch up on things.

Good luck.

[CookinCasanova]

Here it is, confidence can come from many different places. If you are not the type of guy who can naturally attract women, think about this, do people feel important and improved around you? If so, you’re almost there. If not, then you need find your purpose in life and make it your #1 goal.

Invite her over to your place and cook dinner for her! If you can cook for her, in front of her, it communicates that you can take care of her which is a huge plus in a woman’s mind.

But what to cook, healthy foods are plus plus points and NOT mac ‘n’ cheese from the box! Fish En Papillote! (pronounced uhn pap-ee-yoht) a simple french cooking technique that is possibly the easiest thing in the word to cook, even easier to clean up and sure to impress.

Here’s what you need:

Parchment Paper (available at any grocery store)
2 (two) 6 - 8 ounce pieces of white fish (flounder, cod, tilapia etc...)
1 zucchini sliced
1 small tomato sliced
1 clove of garlic minced (cut really small)
a small handful of spinach
butter
salt and pepper
Optional - 1/2 cup of white wine

Directions
1) pre heat your oven to 375 degree F

2) roll out enough parchment paper so that when you lay the piece of fish in the middle, there is at least 3 inches of open paper in every direction. Now double the length because you’re going to fold it over to create a pouch

2) take the fish off the paper and season each one with a good pinch of salt and pepper

3) place half of the handful of spinach inside one of the halves of parchment paper

4) lay enough slices of the zucchini down on top of the spinach so that the fish can rest on it.

5) lay the fish on top of the zucchini

6) sprinkle some of the minced garlic on each piece of fish

7) rest 1 or 2 small pats of butter on top of the piece of fish

8) lay 2-3 tomato slices on top

9) Fold the parchment paper around the edges tightly in 1/4-inch folds to create a half moon shape. Make sure to press as you crimp down and fold. The packet needs to be sealed well so the steam doesn’t escape

10) if you want, before making the last few folds pour ¼ cup of wine in each pouch.

11) place the pouches on a baking sheet and put in the oven, center rack for 12 minutes depending on how thick the cuts of fish are.

12) take pouches out of the oven, the tops of the pouches should be a brownish color

13) put each pouch on a plate and cut open the top and boom goes the dynamite! (yeah I went there) You now have a full meal with next to no clean up!

a few suggestions - First off, clean up your place before she comes over (especially the bathroom!). Second, serve with a chilled white wine. Third, make sure you have some art, photos, books etc... that show who you are and your interests. This will give you things to talk about. Fourth, if you like this recipe and you’d like to know more, I run a website that is dedicated to teaching single guys how to become more evolved men and make meeting, attracting and keeping women much easier. And yes, cooking is a huge part of it.

Hope this helps!

-Scotty G